GH-106895: Raise a ValueError when attempting to disable events that cannot be disabled.

[markshannon]

• Issue: Returning DISABLE from a sys.monitoring callback can trigger an assert in a debug build in (3.12b4) #106895

[miss-islington]

Thanks @markshannon for the PR 🌮🎉.. I'm working now to backport this PR to: 3.12.
🐍🍒⛏🤖

[miss-islington]

Sorry, @markshannon, I could not cleanly backport this to 3.12 due to a conflict.
Please backport using cherry_picker on command line.
cherry_picker c6539b36c163efff3d6ed02b938a6151325f4db7 3.12

[bedevere-bot]

GH-107351 is a backport of this pull request to the 3.12 branch.

[bedevere-bot]

⚠️⚠️⚠️ Buildbot failure ⚠️⚠️⚠️

Hi! The buildbot AMD64 Windows10 3.12 has failed when building commit 0902afb.

What do you need to do:

1. Don't panic.
2. Check the buildbot page in the devguide if you don't know what the buildbots are or how they work.
3. Go to the page of the buildbot that failed (https://buildbot.python.org/all/#builders/1159/builds/233) and take a look at the build logs.
4. Check if the failure is related to this commit (0902afb) or if it is a false positive.
5. If the failure is related to this commit, please, reflect that on the issue and make a new Pull Request with a fix.

You can take a look at the buildbot page here:

https://buildbot.python.org/all/#builders/1159/builds/233

Failed tests:

• test_concurrent_futures

Summary of the results of the build (if available):

== Tests result: FAILURE then SUCCESS ==

432 tests OK.

10 slowest tests:

• test_math: 4 min 37 sec
• test_multiprocessing_spawn: 4 min 34 sec
• test_wmi: 3 min 44 sec
• test_capi: 2 min 51 sec
• test_unparse: 2 min 50 sec
• test_peg_generator: 2 min 27 sec
• test_tokenize: 2 min 11 sec
• test_lib2to3: 1 min 55 sec
• test_mmap: 1 min 29 sec
• test_pickle: 1 min 27 sec

35 tests skipped:
test.test_asyncio.test_unix_events test_curses test_dbm_gnu
test_dbm_ndbm test_devpoll test_epoll test_fcntl test_fork1
test_gdb test_grp test_ioctl test_kqueue test_multiprocessing_fork
test_multiprocessing_forkserver test_nis test_openpty
test_ossaudiodev test_perf_profiler test_perfmaps test_pipes
test_poll test_posix test_pty test_pwd test_readline test_resource
test_spwd test_syslog test_threadsignals test_wait3 test_wait4
test_xxlimited test_xxtestfuzz test_zipfile64 test_zoneinfo

1 re-run test:
test_concurrent_futures

Total duration: 29 min 36 sec

Click to see traceback logs

Traceback (most recent call last):
  File "D:\buildarea\3.12.bolen-windows10\build\Lib\test\support\os_helper.py", line 480, in temp_dir
    yield path
  File "D:\buildarea\3.12.bolen-windows10\build\Lib\test\support\os_helper.py", line 533, in temp_cwd
    yield cwd_dir
  File "D:\buildarea\3.12.bolen-windows10\build\Lib\test\libregrtest\main.py", line 758, in main
    self._main(tests, kwargs)
  File "D:\buildarea\3.12.bolen-windows10\build\Lib\test\libregrtest\main.py", line 817, in _main
    sys.exit(0)
SystemExit: 0


Traceback (most recent call last):
  File "D:\buildarea\3.12.bolen-windows10\build\Lib\test\support\__init__.py", line 207, in _force_run
    return func(*args)
           ^^^^^^^^^^^
PermissionError: [WinError 32] The process cannot access the file because it is being used by another process: 'D:\\buildarea\\3.12.bolen-windows10\\build\\build\\test_python_9400�\\test_python_worker_9496�'


Traceback (most recent call last):
  File "D:\buildarea\3.12.bolen-windows10\build\Lib\runpy.py", line 198, in _run_module_as_main
    return _run_code(code, main_globals, None,
           ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
  File "D:\buildarea\3.12.bolen-windows10\build\Lib\runpy.py", line 88, in _run_code
    exec(code, run_globals)
  File "D:\buildarea\3.12.bolen-windows10\build\Lib\test\__main__.py", line 2, in <module>
    main()
  File "D:\buildarea\3.12.bolen-windows10\build\Lib\test\libregrtest\main.py", line 822, in main
    Regrtest().main(tests=tests, **kwargs)
  File "D:\buildarea\3.12.bolen-windows10\build\Lib\test\libregrtest\main.py", line 752, in main