1:1s Are For Direct Reports — and Other Lies You Tell Yourself

Use everyone’s time better by focusing on value

Avi Siegel
The Startup

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Photo by Wynand van Poortvliet on Unsplash

The common modern advice nowadays for well-read leaders is that one-on-ones with direct reports shouldn’t be used as a status report, and instead should be considered an opportunity for employees to get what they need out of their managers to better do their jobs.

The focus being on the direct reports’ needs, not those of their managers.

At its core, this advice is true… but it’s also creating a generation of inattentive-at-best, lazy-at-worst leaders, managers, and mentors. Ones that join the meeting ready for nothing, leave it commiserating the uselessness, and take no action to improve the status quo.

Please don’t let that be you.

Ahead you’ll find 6 lies that you (may) tell yourself about 1:1s. You’ll also find 3 solutions that will make your 1:1s more productive and efficient.

The Lies (and why they’re lies)

1. The onus is on direct reports to extract value out of one-on-ones (because you’re incorrectly drawing the lines of responsibility)

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Avi Siegel
The Startup

Applying real-world perspective to product management, leadership, agile, entrepreneurship, and startups. Co-Founder of Momentum (gainmomentum.ai)